After my husband paid N580k for my bride price, this is now my condition - Lady cries out

After my husband paid N580k for my bride price, this is now my condition – Lady cries out

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A Nigerian Lady Identified as Elohor Okudu describes how her husband wouldn’t help her own family after spending over N580k for her bride price.

The story was shared by a twitter user recognized as @SmartAtuadi, the woman is looking for professional advice as the issue irritates her.

She Wrote: “I got married 8months ago, my hubby earns 70k monthly while I am yet to get a job, during our wedding ceremony, hubby spent about 580k on the list given to him for the traditional wedding, I persuaded my parents to reduce the list but they said it is a must and a tradition.”

“He was able to raise the money as I wasnt working and I couldn’t help financially. After marriage I suggested that he should be sending something monthly to my parents as he does send to his parents too, but to my surprise the reply he gave me was that he didn’t owe my parents anything that they have collected all they are entitled to from Help Nigerian ally I was not angry about that until my younger brother wanted to get married and his bride family gave him list of things for the traditional wedding which amounted to 400k.”

“My dad then shared the expenses and told my husband to contribute 120k towards my brother’s wedding but to my surprise, my husband said no and told me that my family has collected all they wanted during our wedding and they shouldn’t come to him for any financial assistance, this got me angry and I told him that he is not responsible.”

“Ever since then we have been living like strangers in the house, he doesn’t talk to me, he has just been keeping to himself, and I have never seen him this way before not even in our 2 years of courting.

“Please our mummies and daddies, kindly advise me on what to do to save the situation, I am in between my husband and my family”.

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2 thoughts on “After my husband paid N580k for my bride price, this is now my condition – Lady cries out

  1. Your parents made a mistake by acting so weird to him, and he is not supposed to contribute to your brother marriage

    You don’t have to disrespect him by calling him irresponsible

  2. What kind of nonsense us this. You tell yourself the truth. Is it your husband’s job to contribute to your father’s sons marriage?? No please. Let your father go and marry for his son. It’s also tradition. Let him do it and see how it feels to be callous. Moreover, your father is irresponsible to give your husband a share of the cost as if it is your husbavds duty. No please. He had no business towards your brothers traditional marriage. That is the truth. No one should call him wicked. You must go and apologize to your husband. You are totally wrong. Thinking n claiming right like your father.

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